Life’s a funny old thing isn’t it, the trials and tribulations that we go through. The ups and downs, the left’s and the rights.
But where are we within this whirlwind of life? Sometimes, we have no idea where we are. We feel lost in this abys of media confusion, peer or professional advice coming at all angles, do this and do that, follow my advice, no, follow mine.
We’re pulled from pillar to post, not knowing which way to turn and then at the end of the day, it’s just us again, just us and we’re lost. Drowning in unachieved goals, sinking in failure, socking in the feeling that we just didn’t do this life thing right yet again, and another year has passed by and what have we achieved?
Maybe you’ve done loads, maybe you’re a hard-core goal setter, maybe you’re the one up at 5am in the morning, running 5 miles, sat at your desk and smashing your goals by 7am. Unfortunately, or not-unfortunately as the case may be, that’s not me and the same goes for many others too.
I have to admit and I am one for admitting my ‘wrong-doings’ by the way, I get a sense of sharing and community when I tell people how many mistakes I’ve made. Others then feel free to join in too and we have a jolly good con-flab about who’s lost the most money following their dreams, who’s had the most relationship breakdowns, and who’s business failed first.
I have spent years following people who talk about achieving goals and if you aren’t following goals you’re somehow failing. Somehow, you’re a disappointment, a let-down, lazy and unmotivated yet you find this makes you even more un-motivated.
But, what if you’re not unmotivated, what if you’re just learning right now, and that goal isn’t quite ready for you yet, what if in five or even ten years time you find that you do have a goal but you just had to realise what it was.
I honestly thought that being a millionaire was what I wanted, the huge house, the Porsche, the 90 holidays each year the designer clothes, and for a long time I fought with myself, ‘why couldn’t I reach and achieve what I’d set for myself?’ Why was I not achieving my goals? I was such a loser, no hoper, all the childhood fears I had were coming true.
Then it all became clear and all via sheer disappointment, this dream house that I was going to buy since 2017, sold. I gasped so hard I nearly swallowed my tongue.
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